Helping ppl is so hard....

well... today is really a day of mixed feelings... got flamed by a fren's mother... i wun go into too much details here... but then fortunately it's settled rather amiciably... the motives of helping her is nothing to be ashamed of... it was to erase all the distractions which would otherwise threaten to affect her work... but in the end i m juz branded (rather politely and subtly) as a busybody... sigh... how hard izzit to offer help...

Actually wanted to blog something else... but now not much mood liaoz... but i'll probably juz do a simple equation for u ppl to figure out urselves... for those who have comments to share or offer, pls Tag it on the Board=)

if u see these symbols; (+) and (-), they signal opposite sexes... this is for all sexes... so u will probably want to treat (+) as ur own gender and (-) as the opposite gender=)

B likes u
u like B but not alot
u like A a lot,
but A treats u only as a fren.
A is not attached at the moment.
B tells u dat he understands u like A and that (he-) will wait for u
wad will u say to B??? or wad actions will u take???


remember 1 thing, wadever u say to B might backfire on u next time... simply becoz A might also be waiting for someone (+). like a vicious circle, B waits for u, u wait for A but A is also waiting for someone else... wadever u say to B, A may say the same thing to u...
but does dat mean u shd accept B?? u DO like B a little... mostly as frens... the same thing A is treating u as... err... hahaha... i think i'll leave it like this lahz if u dun understand this whole thing juz post a msg on the board=) remember the question worz wad will u say to B??? or wad actions will u take???

If u decide to appraoch A, and at the same time prepared to be rejected, wad to do with B? Is this Rebound?

I like to ask questions dat formulate the mind... whether or not u want to share ur answers with mi and the other readers it's okay=) but i hope u at least think of the answer in ur heart... who noes it may happen to u one day=P


Have a Good Week (or wad's left of it....)
Yangming