This is my reply to a post by Pet yesterday.

Love is like a Butterfly, the more you wanna catch it and understand it, the more it flutters away leaving you dumbfounded.

Maybe you should try and stop catching and understanding it, and the Butterfly will come fluttering to you instead.Think it's the case with most things in life, the more you want to know it, understand it, own it, the more it shuns you. But when you leave it alone, Everything will come to you eventually.

Puppy: Mama, what is happiness? Where can I find it?

MamaDog: It's on your tail dear.

(Puppy runs around, trying to bite its tail)

Puppy: Mama, mama, I can't seem to catch 'happiness.' Does it mean that I'm not fated to be happy? *sobs*

MamaDog: Haha no dear, you don't have to catch it, just move on and Happiness will follow behind you...

-- Yangming